This article is taken from Borneo Post dated 11 December 2010 and i think some part of it is true. for me. hehe. Here goes
1. Men Like to Cuddle. Cuddling is all about mood and ambience. It's peaceful to lie in someone's arms in the dark with great music or even the low buzz of the TV in the background. It's nice to hear nothing buy your lover's breath against the backdrop of the evening or early morning. Holding someone close in bed also makes you feel very secure with one another and the relationship.
2. Men Think They Are Good In Bed. Men are taught that confidence solves just about anything. You can be making a total mistake, but as long as you're confident, it will turn out okay. This may explain why we are so clueless at what we are doing in bed, but we act like we know.
3. Getting Too Tipsy On A Date Is A Turnoff. Some people turn into a completely different person when they are drunk. Let the other person learn about you while you're sober, before you get wasted with them. Alcohol should be introduced into the relationship slowly, but if a drink or two takes the edge off, and wine adds romance it;s fine. Just dont push it too far.
4. Heavy Make-Up Is a Turnoff. Men always appreciate a natural look as it is, when a girl does her make-up well, the results can be magical. But the one thing that should never happen is excessive application - too much, too many colours, or if it's just a botched attempt at a good make-up makes like the earth and erodes and changes with weathering. There is nothing more ghastly than make-up run amuck in the morning after spending the night together.
5. Women Put Pressure On Themselves to Get Married. Women say that they feel more pressure to settle down because they cant have children easily past a certain age. Men dont feel pressure in that sense, but do fear that their appearance and their 'game' will fade as they get older.
6. Women Will Never Understand Men's Sports Obsession. There are some women who love sports, but are they as obsessed with sports like guys are? Men read about sports every day, and go over statistics. There is no reason why women wouldnt understand or know sports lie guys do if they were as obsessed.
7. Women Are Not the Only Ones Who Engages In Retail-Therapy Post-Breakup. People have shopped during emotional low points. Wearing new clothes makes them feel confident. There is also a social aspect of shopping because you are usually with friends, consorting with other shoppers and salespeople. You've been spending a lot of money on your ex in the past; now it's time to spend some money on you.
8. Sex In the Shower Is Over-Rated. That 'up against the wall' variation is tougher than it sounds. The entire shower apparatus is so slippery, and then you have soap all over the place. It'a a danger zone.
9. Me Do Think Women Are Crazy Sometimes. It is only because it makes things easier for them. Once men accepted that women are 'crazy', it seemed to take a huge load of pressure off them. They dont really think women are insane, they just say it so they can be done thinking about their antics and move on.
10. Leave Your Baggage At the Door. Guys are happy to help out their girlfriends with emotional issues. But if the baggage becomes apparent too early in the relationship, then a guy will probably bail. Also, baggage causes people to put pressure on or damage a relationship, so it may be domed from the outset.
11. Men Are Afraid of Commitment. Commitment means that they've decided that the woman they are settling down with is perfect and there is no one else other there for them. Commitment means they have found their soul mate, that they are completely secure with themselves, and that there should be no going back. Commitment is a sign of maturity, and it just takes some of them longer.
12. Confidence Is Key In the Bedroom. The best thing to do is to act like you have some experience, and not question anything. It will work.
13. Insecure About Dirty Talk. There are so many incorrect things men could say, from weak to gross to just downright bizarre. last thing men need is to give a girl some material for a girls' night conversation/
14. Sometimes, Men Blame Women's Bad Mood On Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS). But men just dont say it. Honestly, sometimes a woman's anger does look hormonal. Men have learned not to make things worse by suggesting that a woman has bad mood during PMS.
15. Men Get Jealous Because They Are Insecure. If a guy feels like he does not deserve a woman or is not good enough for her, he will become jealous easily and worried that he;s going to lose her to another guy.
16. Men Hate It When Women Try Too Hard to Be One of the Guys. It's pretty lame that men invent words and languages and then giggle over them like schoolchildren. But what's even lamer is when some outsider tries to use the language, without the ability to contribute.
17. Men Notice What Women Are Wearing. Women should cater what they wear to what they are doing, as they are being noticed.
18. Men Play Hard to Get. Sometimes, they just act like men have no chance, even though they might like them. They openly flirt with other girls in front of them, and talk about how hot other girls are. They make themselves look really picky and difficult to get to. Then, man gets really tender and gives all of his attention to this girl who thought she had no chance.
There you have it. What do you think?
